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Choosing a Theme or Style: Making Your Wedding Uniquely Yours

By Cassie Bauer Feb 20, 2025 | 10:00 AM

One of the most exciting parts of wedding planning is deciding on a theme or style that reflects you as a couple. Whether you’re dreaming of a romantic rustic celebration, a glamorous ballroom affair, or a sleek modern event, your wedding should feel like your love story come to life. But with so many options, how do you choose? Don’t worry—I’ve got you covered!

Start with Your Vibe

Before you get lost in Pinterest boards, think about the kind of atmosphere you want. Do you picture a cozy, intimate setting with fairy lights and woodsy charm? Or are you imagining a chic, black-tie event with crystal chandeliers? Start by asking yourselves: What feels most like us?

Consider Your Venue

Your location plays a huge role in your wedding’s overall aesthetic. A barn might be perfect for a rustic theme, while a grand hotel ballroom lends itself to a glamorous look. If you already have a venue in mind, let it help guide your theme.

Get Inspired by Your Love Story

Think about places you love, trips you’ve taken, or even your favorite date nights. If you both adore the beach, a coastal theme with soft blues and natural textures might be perfect. If your first date was at a jazz club, a vintage Gatsby-inspired wedding could be a fun nod to your beginnings.

Pick a Color Palette

A strong color scheme helps tie everything together, no matter what style you choose. Neutral tones with greenery scream rustic elegance, while jewel tones and metallics bring a touch of glam. Bold, minimalist colors like black, white, and gold fit perfectly in a modern aesthetic.

Think About the Details

Your theme doesn’t have to be over-the-top—sometimes it’s all in the little touches. Rustic weddings can feature wooden signage and mason jar centerpieces, while glam weddings shine with gold accents and luxe fabrics. Modern weddings often go for clean lines and sleek décor.

Stay Consistent

Whatever theme you choose, carry it through all elements of your wedding—your invitations, table settings, attire, florals, and even the music. A cohesive look and feel will make your wedding feel polished and intentional.

Make It Personal

At the end of the day, your wedding should reflect you. Mix and match elements to make it uniquely yours. A little bit of rustic charm with some glam details? Why not! Modern with a vintage twist? Go for it!

Don’t Overthink It

While it’s great to have a theme, don’t stress about making everything perfectly match. The most important thing is that your wedding feels authentic to you and your partner.

Your wedding, your style, your rules. Now go forth and start planning the celebration of your dreams!

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